But great oral sex can send a woman to 7th heaven, to say the least. For women, cunnilingus is the equivalent of a blowjob for men. Your girl will thank you and ask for it again and again. Another thing that women love about oral sex is the aspect of extreme intimacy and sensuality to be found in the mouth, lips, and tongue of her man, at once hot and wet, fluctuating between sweetness and strength. As a general rule, a woman needs more time to reach orgasm than a man. This rule applies to oral sex, too, so keep that in mind.
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There is zero chance your vagina smells weird. If you took a shower within the last 24 hours, you probably smell awesome. Do you smell like fresh-cut roses? No, but neither do penises. And if something does smell kind of weird, you should probably see a doctor, so it's good to know if that's the case. You don't have to just lie there terrified of making one false move. It's OK to move your body if you feel like it.
Penis-in-vagina sex is not the be-all-end-all of sex. Oral sex can be just as pleasurable — if not more so — than penetrative sex. You know whose genital juice tastes like cookies and cream?
We asked sex educators and sex therapists to share their best advice on how to make it a very satisfying experience for all involved. Note: Just remember these are general tips. Focus on a slow buildup maybe start with a body massage or a make-out session , then pay special attention to the clitoris, which, for many women, must be stimulated in order for them to have an orgasm. Try circles, moving your tongue up and down, or left to right.