The LDS Church encourages that young women explore their options and meet all different kinds of people. If we can say them together, great; if not. Your attempts at being funny or lightening the mood may backfire, and your date may be put off. I just pray daily that no matter what we end up doing we are 30 min or less away from each other. Do not expect anything long term.
Additionally, you need to take stock of your beliefs and acknowledge they may change overtime. But now, we embrace our spiritual differences. If you are an atheist or a non-believer, then let your date know, and politely decline the invitation. Mormon's view marriages outside the temple to be counterfeit and you can't get into the temple without converting to the religion.
Their pain is guarded within the confines of their professional experience. Then, do any of the above morsels of advice matter. No beliefs are protected from challenge, the rules of evidence, or derision. She cannot get into the top echelons of heaven without being sealed to a worthy priesthood holder in the temple for time and all eternity. I currently just started dating someone who is not only in the military, but a doctor. If your doctor husband says "impossible", ignore him. She never mentioned TSCC. Dating does not necessarily mean an exclusive relationship. She is a returned missionary, and won't Marry you if you want to stay atheist. I married a person, not a religion.
Oh this is a great set of questions. It's also possible that deep down she's like many of us here, and her shelf will break and she'll want out. Seems some lonely trolls out there too based on above commentor. He also brought up issues with the church when we discussed religion so slowly he brought to light some disturbing facts and even though I would have denied it, it got to me. If she doesn't care that you aren't a member now, if your relationship goes on long enough, she is going to care eventually. I so agree with all these points about surviving medicine. When my nephews started looking at porn on computers everybody blamed me when it wasn't me. Thought the girl and I had a future, and we did, just not with each other I'll bet there are hundreds of boyfriend converts out there. This can be done.