AskMen may get paid if you click a link in this article and buy a product or service. Dinner at the restaurant was romantic, and together, you finished off a bottle of red wine. The full moon is bright. Together, you walk back to her place, touching fingertips, clasping and unclasping hands, flirting in whispers, and as you approach your building, the flirting gets heavy and a little dirty. Rough sex is not vanilla. Gone are the tender caresses, and in their place are commands. The tone of rough sex is different than the sweet, sultry allure of a typical night. Rough sex gets physical and it can get vigorous. It can be intense because the line is there to be crossed.
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One night, after too many whiskey sours, the conversation among a group of my closest friends and I turned to sex. We're not a judge-y group, nor are we bashful when it comes to providing the intimate details of our sex lives. And, yet, when one of my friends revealed that she falls off the orgasmic cliff when her boyfriend calls her a "whore" just as she's about to come, she lowered her eyelids to the table. She seemed almost apologetic. In a really good way. One by one, the "degrading sex" dominoes began to fall. One friend confessed she finds it hot when her husband slaps her with his penis. Another begs her boyfriend to ejaculate on her face while she kneels at his feet.
Rough sex is often the topic of heated debates, with many categorizing it as abuse and others categorizing it as a legitimate fetish. How old are you? Woman A: Twenty-seven. Woman B: Twenty-three. Woman C: Thirty-four. What do you consider rough sex? What do you think is the difference between rough sex and BDSM? How did you realize you preferred rough sex?