When she had a strict 6: If there was a disagreement, one person was supposed to submit to the other, consult a rulebook that covered almost everything, or turn to a church leader to decide for them. The bottom line is that you are setting yourself up for difficult times ahead. That said, there are also a lot of pricks inside the church, who fully deserve membership.
I don't want to advocate manipulation but asking questions concerning Joseph's dishonesty about polygamy to his first wife and his marriage of other men's wives and marriage of a 14 year old may prove more fruitful than just saying wow polygamy is messed up. This is not about either of you individually. Mormons think when you die, based on if you were a good person cough cough atheists you go to spirit "paradise" where they will teach you the gospel. Then, do any of the above morsels of advice matter. It is amazing how different values and outlooks, interpersonal relationships can be from family to family. They don't get easier, the demands of the hospital and patients will always come first. If you decide to marry this man, you both will find a way to be happy and have a wonderful marriage, not that perfect that we see in the Sundays at Church. Right now she won't even watch a movie. It is much easier for the Holy Ghost to influence good people.
I don't mean to be rude, but she's not gonna give up her "nonsense". I am just starting to get a little panicky and upset about this the more I think about it. I was spiritually prepared to receive the answer that I sought. I think it might be worth trying. She went ahead a married a non member. Before the cap inresidents sometimes worked hours per week.
We are not judged only for what we do but why we do it. You;ll get the answer you needвprayers and blessings for you both. Get her to explain what she believes, and how it might differ from her church. I've been married to a doctor for 5 years now been together for 11 years and he is in his first year of Anaesthetics. Why not ask him where he wants the relationship to go. Not unless she thinks she can convert you. The woman's role is to grow up, marry a worthy priesthood holder, and have a lot of kids. I was not moving with him until there was a promise and it would still take me a few months to find a job and relocate. However, you might be lucky to not have the experience I did. I don't want to advocate manipulation but asking questions concerning Joseph's dishonesty about polygamy to his first wife and his marriage of other men's wives and marriage of a 14 year old may prove more fruitful than just saying wow polygamy is messed up.